Today is ‘Blue Monday’, otherwise known as the third Monday in January and, supposedly, the most depressing day of the year – but you can change that, you can always change that.
I wanted to share a parable that derives from Native American tradition to help to explain…
One evening, an elderly Cherokee brave told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people. He said, ‘My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all.
One is evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.
The other wolf is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.’
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked, ‘Grandpa, which wolf wins?’
The old Cherokee simply replied, ‘The one that you feed.’
The moral of the story: Don’t allow your ‘good’ wolf to become malnourished; despite outside influences and factors that could have an impact on your mood, you still have a choice to feed the wolf that represents happiness and positivity.
Which wolf will you feed today?
Nice, I have been feeling a little down today but I’m definitely fighting it 🙂
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I’m sorry to hear that you have been feeling that way but I’m glad that you’re choosing to fight it, even though that sometimes seems like the more difficult option. You don’t want the ‘bad’ wolf to look too plump 😉
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I’ve always loved that story/parable, and I’m so glad you used it in your post. It fits perfectly 🙂
~Kay
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I love it too, thank you for reading 🙂
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Always a great reminder!
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Absolutely, a beautiful reminder!
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I’ve never heard of Blue Monday! I guess I have been feeling blue these past few weeks and I just need a change so bad. I do get short bursts of positivity and inspiration every now and then. This post (I have heard of this tale before hough) just reminded me again of the good things. Thanks!
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In reality, we all face ups and downs but its important to pull ourselves out of it because, hopefully, there’s always something to smile about at the end of the day. 🙂
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That is so true! 🙂
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This is such a beautiful reminder. There’s so much negativity around that I have to remind myself to feed the right wolf every time I step out.
Hajara | Chocolatefrosst Xx
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I agree – and you can feed other peoples wolves to spread the positivity! xx
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this is so special! I absolutely love the native american culture and any spreading of good energy and light cant go a miss!
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I just thought that this was a really nice way of thinking about things, so I had to share it! 🙂
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I have heard this parable before in this and other forms and I think it is absolutely spot on. Thank you for sharing, always a good reminder.
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You’re welcome, thank you for reading!
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Which wolf, indeed! Thanks for the inspiration.
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You’re welcome – I hope that you choose to feed the ‘good’ wolf 😉
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I try! Sometimes the two forge an uneasy truce, and I’m afraid they’re sharing the food!
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